Our Ego’s:
The concept of the ego is often associated with psychoanalytic theories, particularly those developed by Sigmund Freud. In Freudian psychology, the ego is one of the three parts of the mind (along with the id and superego) and is responsible for managing reality and mediating between the demands of the id (basic instinctual drives) and the superego (internalized societal and parental norms).
The idea that the ego wants us to always be right can be related to the ego’s role in maintaining a positive self-image and protecting us from feelings of inadequacy or vulnerability. The ego seeks to preserve a sense of self-worth, and admitting that we are wrong can sometimes be challenging because it may be perceived as a threat to our self-esteem.
However, it’s important to note that psychological perspectives on the ego and human behavior vary, and not all theories emphasize the ego in the same way. Additionally, concepts like the ego are part of a theoretical framework and may not be universally accepted.
In everyday language, when people say that someone’s ego wants them to be always right, they might be referring to a tendency for individuals to resist admitting fault or making mistakes due to a desire to protect their self-image. It’s a human tendency to seek validation and avoid cognitive dissonance, which is the discomfort that arises from holding conflicting beliefs or attitudes.
Ultimately, personal growth often involves the ability to acknowledge mistakes, learn from them, and adapt one’s beliefs and behaviors accordingly. While the ego may play a role in the initial resistance to being wrong, individuals can develop self-awareness and emotional intelligence to navigate these challenges more effectively.
Shervan K Shahhian