EMDR Trauma survivors might not want to give details of their traumatic experiences:
Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a psychotherapy approach that has been widely used for the treatment of trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). One of the key features of EMDR is its focus on the processing of traumatic memories to help individuals integrate them in a less distressing way.
It is not uncommon for trauma survivors to find it challenging or distressing to disclose detailed information about their traumatic experiences. There are several reasons for this:
Avoidance and Emotional Overwhelm: Trauma survivors often develop coping mechanisms, such as avoidance, to protect themselves from overwhelming emotions associated with the trauma. Discussing the details of the traumatic event may trigger intense emotional reactions, making it difficult for them to share specific details.
Fear of Retraumatization: Revisiting traumatic memories can lead to a fear of retraumatization. Trauma survivors may worry that discussing the details could exacerbate their distress or lead to a resurgence of traumatic symptoms.
Shame and Guilt: Trauma survivors may experience feelings of shame or guilt related to the traumatic event. Sharing the details may evoke these painful emotions, making it challenging for them to disclose the specifics of what happened.
Fragmented Memories: Traumatic memories are often stored in a fragmented and disorganized manner. Survivors may have difficulty recalling or articulating a coherent narrative of the events, which can contribute to their reluctance to provide details.
In EMDR, therapists are trained to work with clients in a way that respects their readiness and ability to disclose details about the trauma. The therapy involves a structured approach that includes phases such as history-taking, treatment planning, and the use of bilateral stimulation (typically through eye movements) to facilitate the processing of traumatic memories.
Therapists employing EMDR understand the importance of pacing the therapy according to the individual’s needs, ensuring a safe and supportive environment. If a client is not ready or unwilling to share specific details, the therapist can still use EMDR techniques to target and process distressing aspects of the trauma without requiring a detailed verbal narrative.
Ultimately, the goal of EMDR is to help individuals reprocess traumatic memories in a way that reduces their emotional charge and promotes healing, even if detailed verbal disclosure is not immediately possible or preferred by the client.
Shervan K Shahhian