What triggers a Narcissistic abuse:
Narcissistic abuse typically occurs in relationships where one person (the narcissist) seeks to exert power and control over another person (the victim). It often involves emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical manipulation. Triggers for narcissistic abuse can vary, but some common factors include:
Threats to the Narcissist’s Self-Esteem: Anything that challenges or threatens the narcissist’s inflated sense of self can trigger abusive behavior. This includes criticism, perceived rejection, or even the success and independence of the victim.
Fear of Abandonment: Narcissists often fear abandonment, and this fear can drive them to control and manipulate their partners to ensure they stay in the relationship.
Lack of Narcissistic Supply: Narcissists thrive on attention and admiration, known as narcissistic supply. If they feel they are not receiving enough attention or admiration, they may become abusive to regain control and dominance.
Challenges to Authority: Narcissists have a strong need for control and may become abusive when their authority or dominance is questioned or challenged.
Jealousy and Envy: Narcissists may react aggressively when they perceive others as more successful, attractive, or accomplished than themselves, leading to abusive behavior.
Projection of Insecurities: Narcissists often project their own insecurities onto their victims, blaming them for issues that are actually the narcissist’s own shortcomings. This can lead to emotional and verbal abuse.
It’s important to note that narcissistic abuse is not the fault of the victim, and the narcissist is solely responsible for their abusive behavior. If you or someone you know is experiencing narcissistic abuse, seeking support from friends, family, or a mental health professional is crucial.
Shervan K Shahhian
LIBERTY PSYCHOLOGICAL ASSOCIATION 