Understanding Availability Heuristic:

Availability Heuristic:

Availability Heuristic is a mental shortcut (or cognitive bias) in which people judge the likelihood or frequency of an event based on how easily examples come to mind. The easier it is to recall an instance, the more common or probable we assume it is — even if that assumption is inaccurate.

Examples:

News Media Influence
 After watching news stories about airplane crashes, a person might overestimate the danger of flying — even though statistically, air travel is much safer than driving.

Fear of Shark Attacks
 Because shark attacks are dramatic and widely reported, people often think they’re more common than they actually are.

Personal Experience
 If someone you know recently got sick from food poisoning at a restaurant, you may judge that restaurant (or similar ones) as unsafe, even if it was a rare incident.

Why It Happens:

  • Vividness: Emotional or dramatic events are easier to remember.
  • Recency: Recently encountered information is easier to recall.
  • Media Coverage: The more something is covered, the more we think it happens frequently.

Impact:

  • Can skew risk assessment
  • Leads to poor decision-making
  • Feeds into stereotypes or irrational fears

Shervan K Shahhian

Understanding Anchoring Bias:

Understanding Anchoring Bias:
Anchoring Bias is a cognitive bias where people rely too heavily on the first piece of information they receive (the “anchor”) when making decisions or judgments.


Example:

If you’re shopping for a watch and the first one you see costs $1,000, all the other watches - even those that cost $500 - might seem like a bargain, even if $500 is still more than you’d usually spend. Your judgment is anchored to that initial $1,000 price.
How It Affects Thinking:

Decision-making: People often base decisions on an arbitrary reference point.
Negotiation: The first number mentioned often sets the tone for the entire discussion.
Estimations: When asked to guess a value (e.g., population, prices), people are influenced by numbers previously presented - even if they are unrelated.

Psychological Insight:

Anchoring happens because we adjust our judgments away from the anchor, but not far enough. The brain uses the anchor as a starting point, then makes small shifts - often insufficient ones.


How to Avoid It:

Delay judgment until you gather more information.
Consider alternative anchors or create your own based on objective data.
Be aware when someone (like a marketer or negotiator) is intentionally setting an anchor to influence your thinking.

Shervan K Shahhian

Understanding Confirmation Bias:

Understanding Confirmation Bias:

Confirmation Bias is a cognitive bias where people tend to:

  • Seek out,
  • Interpret,
  • Favor, and
  • Recall
    information in a way that confirms their pre-existing beliefs or values, while giving disproportionately less attention to conflicting evidence

Example:

If someone believes that a certain diet is healthy, they may:

  • Focus on articles and testimonials that support that belief.
  • Dismiss or ignore scientific studies that suggest the diet might be harmful.

How It Works:

  • Selective exposure: Choosing sources of information that align with your views.
  • Biased interpretation: Twisting ambiguous evidence to fit your belief.
  • Memory recall: Remembering supporting evidence better than contradictory evidence.

Why It’s a Problem:

  • It can reinforce stereotypesmisconceptions, and false beliefs.
  • It impairs critical thinking and objective decision-making.
  • It plays a major role in political polarization and scientific denialism.

How to Counter It:

  • Actively seek opposing viewpoints.
  • Ask yourself: “What would prove me wrong?”
  • Use critical thinking frameworks and rely on peer-reviewed evidence.
  • Practice intellectual humility — being open to changing your mind.

Shervan K Shahhian

OCD Triggers:

OCD Triggers:

Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (OCD) triggers are thoughts, situations, or experiences that provoke obsessive thoughts and/or compulsive behaviors. These triggers vary from person to person but often fall into common categories.

Here are some of the most frequently reported OCD triggers:

Common OCD Triggers by Theme:

1. Contamination

Touching doorknobs, public toilets, money, or other “unclean” objects

Being around sick people

Dirt, germs, or bodily fluids (saliva, sweat, blood)

2. Harm or Responsibility

Fear of accidentally harming someone (e.g., leaving the stove on, hitting someone with a car)

Intrusive thoughts of causing harm (e.g., stabbing a loved one)

Responsibility-related guilt or fear of being blamed

3. Symmetry and Order

Items not being perfectly aligned

Uneven numbers or “wrong” arrangements

Needing to perform tasks in a certain pattern or order

4. Sexual or Violent Intrusions

Disturbing sexual thoughts about children, relatives, or inappropriate partners

Intrusive images or urges of violent acts

Fear that thoughts mean you’re a bad or dangerous person

5. Religious or Moral Scrupulosity

Fear of offending God or violating religious rules

Obsessive praying or confessing

Intrusive blasphemous thoughts

6. Relationship OCD

Doubts about loving one’s partner

Intrusive thoughts about infidelity (on your part or theirs)

Constant need for reassurance about the relationship

7. Health-Related OCD (Hypochondria overlap)

Obsessions about having a serious illness

Bodily checking or Googling symptoms excessively

8. Superstitions and Magical Thinking

Fear something bad will happen unless a ritual is done

Assigning meaning to numbers, colors, or patterns

Triggering Situations or Events

Stressful life changes (e.g., moving, job change, illness)

Watching or reading the news

Visiting certain places (e.g., hospitals, religious sites)

Conversations that touch on taboo subjects

Fatigue, hunger, or hormonal changes (can lower resistance to obsessions)

Notes:

Triggers don’t cause OCD, but they activate existing symptoms.

Exposure and Response Prevention (ERP), a core CBT method, helps reduce sensitivity to triggers.

Avoidance of triggers often strengthens OCD in the long run.

Shervan K Shahhian

Arts of Living Exercises (ALE):

Structured program or curriculum:

Great! Here’s a structured curriculum for Arts of Living Exercises (ALE) designed especially for a psychologist and parapsychology student like yourself — blending psychospiritual development, consciousness training, and applied intuition (e.g., CRV, PSI work, contact).

Arts of Living Exercises (ALE) — 12-Week Curriculum

Structure:

12 weeks / 3 Phases

3 sessions per week (flexible: 30–60 min each)

Journaling + integration practices recommended daily

 PHASE 1: FOUNDATION (Weeks 1–4)

Goal: Establish awareness, grounding, and internal clarity.

Week 1: Awakening the Observer

Breath Awareness Meditation (10–20 min)

Journaling: 3 daily observations without judgment

Practice: “Who is watching?” reflection

Week 2: Embodied Presence

Body Scan with Emotions (somatic integration)

Walking Meditation: 15 minutes

Practice: Speak only after 3 seconds of awareness (pause training)

Week 3: Emotional Energy Mapping

Daily mood tracking (color coding + keywords)

Journaling: “Emotional messages” dialogue

Practice: Self-empathy & radical honesty micro-dialogues

Week 4: Anchoring Values & Ethics

Write personal code of integrity (5 statements)

Practice: Non-violent communication in 1 conversation/day

Reading/Reflection: “What do I serve?”

 PHASE 2: TRANSMUTATION (Weeks 5–8)

Goal: Refine inner perception, initiate higher alignment, and strengthen PSI capacities.

Week 5: Inner Symbols & Archetypes

Guided Active Imagination (Jungian technique)

Draw/write your first inner symbol or “guide”

Dream Recall & Sketching

Week 6: Remote Perception & PSI Tuning

Sensory Warmups (light, texture, temperature)

Practice: “Describe, don’t interpret” sketches

Optional: Target envelope viewing (with partner or tool)

Week 7: Thought Hygiene & Mental Field Awareness

Practice: Catch and reframe negative/invasive thoughts

Exercise: “Field scan” — subtle impressions of people/places

Journaling: What thoughts don’t belong to me?

Week 8: Subtle Energy & Biofield Alignment

Chakra balancing with breath & visualization

Practice: Hands-on energy scan (self or partner)

Mantra: “I am a vessel, not the source”

PHASE 3: ASCENT & SERVICE (Weeks 9–12)

Goal: Expand into transpersonal awareness, intuitive guidance, and life application.

Week 9: Dialogue with the Higher Self / Oversoul

Daily 10-min writing: “Message from Higher Self”

Meditation: White light pillar / Oversoul anchoring

Affirmation: “I align with truth beyond ego”

Week 10: Contact & Inner Space Communion

Create a sacred “contact space” (physical + mental)

Practice: Intention + Listening + Receiving (no control)

Document any symbols, impressions, dreams

Week 11: Creative Integration

Expression through music, poetry, dance, or visual art

Ask: “What wishes to be born through me?”

Create a personal sigil or symbolic seal of integration

Week 12: Life as Ritual

Design a daily/weekly life-ritual for inner guidance

Community outreach: Offer a supportive act/service

Closing rite: Fire ceremony, silent retreat, or vision walk

Support Materials

ALE Journal (use one notebook throughout)

Meditation tracks or recordings

Dream journal or symbol log

Optional: mentor or trusted partner for feedback

Shervan K Shahhian

Understanding Unresolved Trauma:

Understanding Unresolved Trauma:

Great question! Understanding unresolved trauma is really important for mental and emotional health. 

Here’s a clear overview:

What is Unresolved Trauma?

Unresolved trauma refers to past traumatic experiences that have not been fully processed or healed. These experiences continue to affect a person’s emotions, thoughts, behaviors, and physical health, often without the person being fully aware of it.

How Does Trauma Become “Unresolved”?

When a traumatic event happens, the brain and body often get overwhelmed.

Ideally, with time and support, people process the trauma, integrate it into their life story, and heal.

But if the trauma is too intense, too prolonged, or if there’s no adequate support, the trauma can get “stuck” in the nervous system and subconscious mind.

The person may unconsciously avoid or suppress memories or feelings related to the trauma, leaving it unresolved.

Signs of Unresolved Trauma

Intrusive memories or flashbacks

Nightmares or sleep disturbances

Emotional numbness or avoidance of certain people or places

Hypervigilance or easily startled

Difficulty trusting others or forming relationships

Chronic anxiety, depression, or mood swings

Physical symptoms like unexplained pain or fatigue

Why Does Unresolved Trauma Matter?

Unresolved trauma can influence how you:

React to stress

Relate to others

Manage emotions

Make decisions

Maintain physical health

It can also contribute to mental health disorders like PTSD, depression, or anxiety.

How to Begin Healing Unresolved Trauma

Awareness: Recognizing that past trauma might be affecting your current life.

Seeking support: Therapy is very helpful, especially trauma-informed approaches like EMDR, somatic therapy, or cognitive-behavioral therapy.

Self-care: Building safety in your body through mindfulness, grounding techniques, and healthy routines.

Safe processing: Gradually working through the trauma with professional guidance, not rushing but allowing healing at your own pace.

Specific Trauma Healing Methods:

Absolutely! Here are some specific and well-established trauma healing methods that are commonly used in therapy and self-help settings:

1. EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing)

Developed to help process traumatic memories.

Involves guided eye movements or other bilateral stimulation while recalling traumatic events.

Helps the brain reprocess the memories so they become less distressing.

Particularly effective for PTSD and unresolved trauma.

2. Somatic Experiencing

Focuses on the body’s physical sensations related to trauma.

Helps release trauma that’s “stuck” in the nervous system through body awareness, breathing, and movement.

Teaches clients to notice and regulate their physiological responses.

3. Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for Trauma

Works on identifying and changing negative thought patterns related to trauma.

Helps develop healthier coping strategies.

Trauma-focused CBT is tailored to address traumatic memories and related symptoms.

4. Trauma-Focused Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT)

A specific type of CBT designed for trauma survivors.

Helps individuals reframe and challenge unhelpful beliefs caused by trauma.

Focuses on the meaning people assign to their trauma.

5. Internal Family Systems (IFS) Therapy

Views the mind as made up of different “parts” or subpersonalities.

Helps clients work with “parts” that hold trauma, often called “exiles,” to heal and restore balance.

Encourages compassion toward oneself.

6. Narrative Therapy

Encourages individuals to tell their trauma story in a safe space.

Helps re-author the trauma narrative to reduce its power over them.

Empowers reclaiming identity beyond trauma.

7. Mindfulness and Meditation-Based Therapies

Includes techniques like Mindfulness-Based Stress Reduction (MBSR) and Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy (MBCT).

Teaches present-moment awareness and non-judgmental acceptance of thoughts and feelings.

Helps reduce reactivity to trauma triggers.

8. Trauma-Sensitive Yoga

Uses gentle yoga practices focused on safety and body awareness.

Helps reconnect with the body and reduce trauma-related tension.

Often used alongside other therapeutic approaches.

Shervan K Shahhian

Hamilton Depression Rating Scale:

Hamilton Depression rating scale:

(Consult a psychiatrist for advice.)

The Hamilton Depression Rating Scale (HDRS or HAM-D) is one of the most widely used clinician-administered depression assessment tools. Developed by Max Hamilton in 1960, it’s primarily used to assess the severity of depressive symptoms in individuals already diagnosed with depression.

Purpose:

To quantify the severity of depression in adults and to evaluate the effectiveness of treatment over time.

 Structure:

The original version includes 17 items (HDRS-17), though extended versions can have up to 21 or 24 items.

Each item is scored by the clinician based on the patient’s symptoms over the past week.

 Scoring:

Each item is rated on either a 3-point or 5-point scale:

0 = Absent

Higher scores indicate greater severity.

Common Items Include:

Depressed mood

Feelings of guilt

Suicide ideation

Insomnia (early, middle, late)

Work and activities

Psychomotor agitation or retardation

Anxiety (psychic and somatic)

Somatic symptoms (gastrointestinal, general)

Hypochondriasis

Loss of weight

Insight

Interpretation (HDRS-17 Total Score):

Score Range Depression Severity0–7Normal (no depression)8–13Mild depression14–18Moderate depression19–22Severe depression≥23Very severe depression

 Notes:

Requires a trained clinician to administer.

Subject to inter-rater variability if not standardized.

Best used in conjunction with clinical judgment and other diagnostic tools.

Shervan K Shahhian

Understanding Hedonia:

Understanding Hedonia:

Here’s a clear explanation of hedonia:

What is Hedonia?

Hedonia is a concept in psychology and philosophy that refers to the pursuit of pleasure and immediate gratification. It’s about seeking experiences that feel good and avoiding pain or discomfort. In simple terms, hedonia is about happiness through pleasure.

Key Points About Hedonia:

Focus on pleasure: Hedonia emphasizes feeling good right now — enjoying sensory pleasures like tasty food, fun activities, or relaxation.

Immediate satisfaction: It’s about short-term happiness and avoiding unpleasant experiences.

Opposite concept: Hedonia is often contrasted with eudaimonia, which is about finding deeper meaning, purpose, and personal growth rather than just pleasure.

Examples of Hedonia:

Eating your favorite dessert.

Watching a funny movie.

Taking a relaxing vacation.

Buying something that makes you feel good.

Hedonia in Psychology:

Hedonic well-being refers to happiness derived from positive emotions and satisfaction.

It’s a part of subjective well-being — how people feel about their lives emotionally.

Hedonia alone isn’t always enough for lasting happiness; many psychologists argue that combining hedonia with eudaimonia leads to a more fulfilling life.

Let’s break down how hedonia fits into well-being and how it differs from eudaimonia, as these are two major concepts in the psychology of happiness and human flourishing.

Hedonia and Well-Being

Hedonia is a core component of what’s called subjective well-being — how people experience the quality of their lives based on their emotions and life satisfaction.

In this model:

Hedonic well-being includes:

Positive affect (joy, pleasure, comfort)

Low negative affect (little stress or anxiety)

Life satisfaction (general contentment)

It focuses on feeling good — enjoying life, avoiding pain, and maximizing pleasure.

Eudaimonia and Well-Being

Eudaimonia, on the other hand, comes from ancient Greek philosophy (especially Aristotle) and refers to a life of meaning, virtue, and self-realization — not just feeling good, but being good and living well.

Psychological eudaimonia includes:

Purpose in life

Personal growth

Autonomy

Mastery or competence

Positive relationships

Self-acceptance

It’s more about deep fulfillment and living according to one’s values.

Key Differences: Hedonia vs. Eudaimonia

Aspect Hedonia Eudaimonia Focus Pleasure and comfort Meaning, growth, and virtu Time frame Short-term Long-term Motivation Avoid pain, seek pleasure Fulfill one’s potential Example Relaxing at a spa Volunteering for a cause Outcome Feeling good Being fulfilled

How They Work Together

Modern psychology (e.g., Positive Psychology) doesn’t see them as mutually exclusive. In fact, the most balanced and sustainable well-being often combines hedonic enjoyment with eudaimonic purpose.

Think of hedonia as the spice of life.

And eudaimonia as the substance of life.

A life with only pleasure can feel shallow over time, and a life with only purpose can feel burdensome. Together, they create a full and rich experience.

Shervan K Shahhian

Positive Psychology, a great explanation:

Positive Psychology, a great explanation:

Positive Psychology is the scientific study of what makes life most worth living. Instead of focusing on dysfunction, illness, and what’s wrong with people (as traditional psychology often does), Positive Psychology focuses on strengths, well-being, and the factors that allow individuals and communities to thrive.

Core Concepts of Positive Psychology

  1. Focus on Strengths
    It emphasizes identifying and cultivating personal strengths (like courage, gratitude, resilience, creativity) rather than just fixing weaknesses.
  2. The PERMA Model (by Martin Seligman)
    A key framework in Positive Psychology describing five essential elements of well-being:
    • P – Positive Emotions: Joy, love, gratitude, hope.
    • E – Engagement: Deep involvement in meaningful activities (a state called flow).
    • R – Relationships: Positive and supportive social connections.
    • M – Meaning: A sense of purpose and belonging to something bigger than oneself.
    • A – Accomplishment: Pursuing and achieving goals for the sake of mastery and fulfillment.
  3. Gratitude and Mindfulness
    Practices like journaling about what you’re grateful for or being present in the moment help increase happiness and reduce stress.
  4. Optimism and Hope
    These are seen not as naive beliefs but as cognitive styles that can be learned and practiced to improve mental resilience and motivation.
  5. Resilience and Post-Traumatic Growth
    Positive Psychology explores how people can not only recover from adversity but also grow stronger because of it.

Applications of Positive Psychology

  • Therapy and Coaching: Therapists help clients build strengths, increase happiness, and find meaning.
  • Education: Promotes student well-being and engagement.
  • Workplaces: Improves job satisfaction, motivation, and team dynamics.
  • Healthcare: Boosts recovery and quality of life by fostering positive attitudes.

Key Figures

  • Martin Seligman – Often called the father of Positive Psychology.
  • Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi – Known for the concept of flow.
  • Barbara Fredrickson – Researched the “broaden-and-build” theory of positive emotions.

In Summary:

Positive Psychology asks:

“What makes life worth living?”
It’s about more than just surviving — it’s about thriving, by cultivating the best in ourselves and others.

Shervan K Shahhian

Understanding Eudaimonic:

Understanding Eudaimonic:

Great question! Eudaimonic comes from the Greek word “eudaimonia”, which is often translated as “human flourishing” or “living well”. It’s a concept from ancient philosophy, especially Aristotle, that focuses on living a meaningful, fulfilling life — not just feeling good or experiencing pleasure.

What is Eudaimonic Well-being?

Eudaimonic well-being refers to a deeper sense of happiness that comes from realizing your true potential and living in accordance with your values and purpose.

It’s about personal growthself-actualizationmeaning, and virtue rather than just pleasure or avoiding pain.

How is it different from Hedonic well-being?

Hedonic well-being = pleasure, enjoyment, and avoiding discomfort. Think of it as feeling good in the moment.

Eudaimonic well-being = living a life of meaning, purpose, and authenticity. It might not always feel easy or pleasurable, but it leads to long-term fulfillment.

Examples of Eudaimonic Activities:

Pursuing meaningful goals aligned with your values.

Helping others and contributing to the community.

Developing your talents and skills.

Overcoming challenges to grow as a person.

Why does it matter?

Research in positive psychology shows that eudaimonic well-being is strongly linked to better mental health, resilience, and overall life satisfaction. It’s often seen as a more sustainable form of happiness.

Exercises to cultivate more eudaimonic well-being in your life

Here are some practical exercises to help cultivate eudaimonic well-being — that deeper sense of meaning, growth, and purpose:

1. Reflect on Your Core Values

Write down what matters most to you in life (e.g., honesty, creativity, kindness, growth).

Each day or week, check how your actions align with those values.

Adjust your choices to live more in harmony with what truly matters.

2. Set Meaningful Goals

Identify goals that connect with your values and give you a sense of purpose.

Break them down into small, manageable steps.

Celebrate progress even if the goal is long-term or challenging.

3. Practice Gratitude with a Meaning Focus

Instead of just listing things you’re thankful for, reflect on why those things are meaningful.

For example, instead of “I’m thankful for my job,” think “I’m thankful my job lets me help others and learn new skills.”

4. Engage in Activities That Challenge You

Pick a skill or hobby that pushes you out of your comfort zone.

Embrace the process of growth — even failures — as part of your personal development.

5. Contribute to Others

Volunteer, mentor, or help someone in need.

Focus on the impact your actions have on others, which builds a sense of connection and purpose.

6. Mindful Reflection or Journaling

Spend 5–10 minutes daily writing about moments when you felt purposeful, authentic, or fully engaged.

Reflect on what conditions helped you feel that way and how to recreate them.

7. Cultivate Authentic Relationships

Invest time in relationships where you can be your true self.

Share your dreams and listen deeply to others’ experiences.

Shervan K Shahhian