Parapsychology; Xenoglossy and Reincarnation:

Xenoglossy and reincarnation are closely related concepts in parapsychology, especially in research involving alleged past life memories. The key is to distinguish what is reported from what has been scientifically established.

Xenoglossy

Xenoglossy refers to the reported ability of a person to speak, write, or understand a language that they apparently have not learned through ordinary means.

The term comes from Greek:

Xenos = foreign

Glōssa = tongue/language

For example, a person with no known exposure to German might suddenly produce apparently meaningful German phrases during hypnosis or an altered state of consciousness.

Two important forms

  1. Responsive xenoglossy: The person appears capable of having a meaningful conversation in the unfamiliar language, not merely repeating memorized words.
  2. Recitative xenoglossy: The person produces words, phrases, or passages in a language without necessarily demonstrating the ability to understand or communicate spontaneously in it.

This distinction is important because simply producing foreign sounding words is much weaker evidence than demonstrating grammatical, contextually appropriate, spontaneous communication.

Xenoglossy and Reincarnation

In reincarnation research, xenoglossy becomes particularly interesting when someone claims:

“I lived a previous life in another culture, and I learned that language during that lifetime.”

The proposed sequence may be:

Previous life, acquisition of language, death, reincarnation, apparent emergence of language in new person

This has led some researchers in parapsychology and psychical research to regard xenoglossy as potentially relevant to the survival of consciousness hypothesis.

A classic type of case

Imagine a child who:

has no obvious opportunity to learn an unfamiliar language,

spontaneously uses words from that language,

appears to understand what the words mean,

produces appropriate grammatical structures,

describes a purported previous personality associated with that language,

and provides information about that person’s life that may subsequently be investigated.

A reincarnation interpretation may be:

The child’s consciousness somehow retained information from a previous life.

But that may not be the only possible explanation.

The Scientific Problem: How Did the Information Get There?

This is where xenoglossy becomes especially interesting.

If a case is genuine, researchers have to consider competing explanations.

  1. Normal learning

The person may have encountered the language without the investigators knowing about it.

Possible sources include:

parents

relatives

television

books

school

religious services

neighbors

internet exposure

childhood experiences that were forgotten

Past Lives?

This is sometimes called cryptomnesia, information is remembered without remembering where it originally came from.

  1. Fabrication or exaggeration

The person, family members, hypnotist, or investigator may consciously or unconsciously embellish the case.

  1. Suggestion and hypnosis

Some reported xenoglossy cases may occur during hypnosis.

That creates an important methodological problem: hypnosis may increase suggestibility and may produce highly convincing experiences that are not necessarily historically accurate memories.

Therefore:

A vivid hypnotic experience vs automatically a verified past life memory.

  1. Coincidence?

Sometimes a person may produce a few words that happen to resemble another language.

That is much less impressive than sustained, meaningful linguistic competence.

  1. Anomalous information acquisition

A parapsychological interpretation might consider possibilities such as telepathy, clairvoyance, or super psi.

Under this model, the information could potentially come from another living person’s mind or from some other source rather than a previous incarnation.

  1. Reincarnation

The strongest reincarnation interpretation would be:

Some aspect of a previous person’s consciousness survives death and becomes associated with a new individual.

Xenoglossy would then potentially represent retained linguistic information across lives.

Why Xenoglossy Is Interesting for Reincarnation Research

The important issue may not be simply:

“Someone spoke a foreign language.”

The stronger research question may be:

May the person’s linguistic knowledge be demonstrated to be genuine, previously unknown, and acquired without normal learning?

That requires considerably more than an anecdote.

Researchers would ideally document:

Language identification, independent linguistic evaluation, spontaneous production, comprehension, grammar, vocabulary, absence of normal exposure, contemporaneous records, independent verification.

The more of these conditions that are satisfied, the more scientifically interesting the case becomes.

Xenoglossy vs. “Past-Life Memories”

These aren’t exactly the same thing.

A person may report a past life without xenoglossy.

For example:

“I remember living in France in the 1700s.”

That is a past life memory claim.

Xenoglossy would involve something more specific:

“I can communicate in French even though I supposedly never learned French.”

So xenoglossy may potentially provide a more objectively testable component of a reincarnation claim.

A Particularly Important Distinction

There is a major difference between:

“This person appears to know something they shouldn’t know.”

and

“Therefore, this person was reincarnated.”

The first may be an anomalous observation.

The second is a specific interpretation of that observation.

This distinction is crucial in good parapsychological research.

For example:

Observation

A child produces accurate information about an apparently unknown historical individual.

Possible explanations:

reincarnation

cryptomnesia

information leakage

fraud

coincidence

family influence

psi

some combination of factors

Good research attempts to eliminate competing explanations before concluding that reincarnation is the best explanation.

Xenoglossy, Super Psi, and Survival

This is where the subject becomes especially fascinating from a theoretical perspective.

There are at least two major parapsychological models:

Survival model

Death, survival of consciousness, reincarnation, information carried forward

Super Psi model

Living person, extraordinary information acquisition, apparent past life knowledge:

The second model doesn’t require reincarnation.

This is one reason xenoglossy and reincarnation remain controversial even within parapsychology itself.

Bottom line

Xenoglossy is the ability to use a language that a person apparently did not learn through ordinary means.

When associated with reincarnation, it becomes potentially interesting because the language could theoretically represent information carried over from a previous lifetime.

But the strongest interpretation requires much more than a person speaking foreign words during hypnosis. Researchers would need to establish genuine linguistic competence, lack of normal exposure, reliable documentation, and elimination of alternative explanations.

So the scientifically careful position is:

Xenoglossy is a fascinating claimed phenomenon that has been investigated in parapsychology, including in connection with reincarnation, but it has not been established as proof that reincarnation occurs.

And philosophically, it raises a profound question:

If information, memories, personality traits, or skills could demonstrably cross the boundary between one person’s death and another person’s life, what exactly would have survived, the mind, the personality, the information, or consciousness itself?

Shervan K Shahhian

Avoiding a Victim Mentality, doesn’t mean denying that you’ve been hurt:

Avoiding a victim mentality doesn’t mean denying that you’ve been hurt, treated unfairly, or victimized. It means learning to separate what happened to you from what you may do about what happens next.

A healthier mindset

Instead of:

“This always happens to me. There’s nothing I can do.”

Try:

“This happened to me, and I don’t control everything about it, but I can control some of my response.”

8 practical ways to move away from victim thinking:

  1. Separate responsibility from blame.

You may not be responsible for what happened, but you may take responsibility for your next step.

  1. Ask “What is within my control?”Focus on your choices, boundaries, communication, habits, and where you direct your attention.
  1. Challenge all or nothing thinking.Words like always, never, everyone, and nothing may reinforce helplessness. Look for exceptions.
  1. Replace “Why me?” with “What now?”The first question may keep you stuck in the past; the second encourages problem solving.
  1. Practice assertiveness instead of passivity.Say what you need, establish boundaries, and communicate consequences without becoming aggressive.
  1. Don’t confuse acceptance with approval.Accepting that something happened doesn’t mean saying it was acceptable.
  1. Build competence through small actions.Accomplishing manageable goals restores a sense of self-efficacy, the belief that your actions may make a difference.
  1. Allow yourself to receive support.Independence doesn’t mean doing everything alone. Healthy support may actually increase resilience.

A useful daily question:

When something goes wrong, ask:

“What part of this is outside my control, what part is within my control, and what is one constructive thing I may do next?”

That’s a shift from victimhood, agency without blaming yourself for being hurt.

Shervan K Shahhian

Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED) is a mental health disorder:

Intermittent Explosive Disorder (IED) is a mental health disorder can be characterized by recurrent, sudden episodes of intense anger, aggression, or violent outbursts that are disproportionate to the situation.

Key features

  • Sudden explosive anger: yelling, screaming, threats, arguments, or physical aggression.
  • Rapid onset: the reaction may seem to come “out of nowhere.”
  • Disproportionate response: the intensity of the outburst is much greater than what the trigger would normally warrant.
  • Brief episodes: outbursts typically don’t last very long.
  • Regret afterward: the person may feel remorse, embarrassment, guilt, or distress after the episode.
  • Recurrent pattern: this may not be simply an occasional loss of temper.

What causes IED?

There could be one single cause. Possible contributing factors include:

  • Genetic and biological vulnerabilities: consult with a psychiatrist/medical doctor
  • Differences in brain systems involved in emotion regulation and impulse control
  • Childhood adversity or trauma
  • Learned patterns of aggressive behavior
  • Difficulties with emotional regulation
  • Substance use or other psychiatric conditions

IED vs. ordinary anger

Normal anger:

“I’m very frustrated, but I can control what I do.”

IED:

A relatively minor trigger may produce an extreme, impulsive reaction, sometimes involving aggression or destruction, followed by regret.

Importantly, having a bad temper may not automatically mean someone has IED. Clinicians also need to rule out conditions or circumstances that may cause aggression, such as bipolar disorder, PTSD, personality disorders, substance intoxication/withdrawal, certain neurological conditions, medications, or another medical condition: consult with a psychiatrist/medical doctor.

Treatment

IED is treatable. Treatment may include:

  • Please, consult with a psychiatrist/medical doctor
  • Cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT): particularly anger-management and impulse-control strategies.
  • Emotion-regulation skills: recognizing physiological and cognitive warning signs before escalation.
  • Relaxation and mindfulness techniques
  • Medication: consult with a psychiatrist/medical doctor.
  • Treatment of co-occurring conditions such as substance use, depression, anxiety, or trauma related disorders.

A useful clinical concept is the anger cycle:

Consult with a psychiatrist/medical doctor

Trigger, interpretation, physiological arousal, escalating anger, impulsive behavior, consequences, remorse

The therapeutic goal is to intervene before the escalation reaches the explosive stage.

Shervan K Shahhian

Neurosyphilis could be an infection of the central nervous system:

PLEASE, CONSULT WITH A MEDICAL DOCTOR

Neurosyphilis is an infection of the central nervous system. It may occur at any stage of syphilis, including years after the initial infection.

How it may affect the mind and nervous system

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Neurosyphilis may produce a wide range of neurological and psychiatric symptoms, including:

  • Memory and concentration problems
  • Personality or behavioral changes
  • Confusion or cognitive decline
  • Depression, irritability, or emotional changes
  • Psychosis or hallucinations
  • Headaches
  • Problems with balance or coordination
  • Vision or hearing abnormalities
  • Weakness, numbness, or other neurological symptoms
  • In advanced cases, general paresis, a severe neuropsychiatric syndrome involving progressive cognitive and personality deterioration: PLEASE, CONSULT WITH A MEDICAL DOCTOR.

Types/clinical presentations

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Possibly, Modern diagnosis focuses more on the particular neurological or ocular manifestations rather than treating these as completely separate diseases, only a qualified medical doctor will know what to do.

Diagnosis

PLEASE, CONSULT WITH A MEDICAL DOCTOR

Treatment

PLEASE, CONSULT WITH A MEDICAL DOCTOR

Important clinical point: New-onset psychosis, cognitive decline, personality change, or neurological symptoms can have many causes. Neurosyphilis is an important potentially treatable medical cause that clinicians may consider when the presentation warrants it.

Shervan K Shahhian

Chest Breathing itself may not be inherently bad, but,…

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Chest breathing itself may not be inherently bad. The issue could be how and when you breathe that way?

Chest breathing vs. diaphragmatic breathing

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Chest dominant breathing:

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  • Relies more on the upper chest and accessory breathing muscles.
  • May involves quicker, shallower breaths.
  • May occur naturally during exercise, fear, anxiety, or acute stress.
  • If it becomes your habitual resting pattern, it “may” contribute to neck/shoulder tension and a feeling of breathlessness or hyperarousal?

Diaphragmatic breathing:

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  • The diaphragm may do the work.
  • The lower ribs and abdomen expand gently during inhalation.
  • Usually produces slower, more efficient breathing at rest.
  • May help promote parasympathetic regulation and relaxation.

A useful rule

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At rest, you may want quiet, comfortable breathing with movement around the lower ribs/abdomen, rather than exaggerated upper chest breathing.

But don’t try to force your belly outward or take huge breaths. Gentle, slow breathing is better than deep breathing for its own sake.

For stress regulation, a simple approach is:

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Inhale gently, allow the lower ribs/abdomen to expand, exhale slowly and comfortably.

Chest breathing becomes especially important to understand in anxiety and trauma work, because people may unconsciously shift into a more rapid, upper chest pattern when their nervous system perceives threat.

Shervan K Shahhian

Mental Health Checkups could be a good form of preventive care:

Mental health checkups could be a good form of preventive care, similar to routine physical checkups.

A mental health checkup can look at:

  • Mood: depression, irritability, emotional stability
  • Anxiety and stress: excessive worry, panic, chronic stress
  • Sleep: insomnia, irregular sleep, nightmares
  • Cognition: concentration, memory, mental sharpness
  • Substance use: alcohol, medications, or other substances:Please, consult with a medical doctor.
  • Relationships: isolation, conflict, boundaries, social support
  • Functioning: work, daily responsibilities, motivation
  • Trauma: lingering effects of stressful or traumatic experiences
  • Safety: suicidal thoughts, self-harm, or other urgent concerns:A variety of healthcare professionals, including physicians, counselors, psychologists, and other mental health professionals, can play an important role in the assessment and treatment of self-harm. A multidisciplinary approach involves collaboration among multiple healthcare providers to ensure that individuals who engage in self-harm receive comprehensive, coordinated, and individualized care. A thorough psychosocial assessment can help identify underlying psychological, social, and environmental factors, as well as determine the individual’s treatment and support needs.

It may not mean something is “wrong” with you. A checkup may identify problems early, before they become severe.

A primary care physician may perform basic screening, while a psychologist, psychiatrist, or other qualified mental health professional may provide a more comprehensive evaluation.

For many people, an annual or periodic mental health check in is reasonable, with more frequent assessment when symptoms or major life changes occur.

Shervan K Shahhian

Letting Go is the ability to release your attachment,…

Letting go is the ability to release your attachment to something you may not control, change, or keep without denying that it mattered.

It may not mean giving up, forgetting, or pretending you don’t care. It could mean accepting reality and choosing where to place your energy.

What letting go involves

  • Acceptance: “This is what happened; I cannot change the past.”
  • Releasing control: Stop trying to control another person’s thoughts, choices, or behavior.
  • Allowing emotions: Feel sadness, anger, disappointment, or grief without becoming consumed by them.
  • Forgiveness: When appropriate, release the emotional burden of resentment. Forgiveness does not require reconciliation.
  • Detachment: Care about something without making your emotional stability dependent upon its outcome.
  • Redirecting attention: Put energy into what you can influence today.
  • Living forward: Stop repeatedly reopening an old chapter in your mind.

A useful mental health distinction

Acceptance vs approval.

You may accept that something happened while still believing it was wrong.

Letting go vs forgetting.

You may remember an experience and still stop allowing it to control your present.

Detachment vs indifference.

You may deeply care about someone while recognizing that you may not live their life for them.

A simple practice

Ask yourself:

“Is this something I may control, influence, or neither?”

If you may control it, act. If you may influence it, communicate and do your part.

If you may neither control nor influence it, practice acceptance and release.

The deepest form of letting go may be letting reality be reality without continually fighting it in your mind.

Shervan K Shahhian

Staying connected with your support system, please:

Staying connected with your support system means maintaining regular contact with people who provide emotional, practical, or social support, especially during stressful or difficult periods.

What a support system may include

  • Family members or trusted friends
  • Therapists, counselors, or peer-support groups
  • Mentors, colleagues, or community members
  • Support groups for grief, addiction, trauma, or other concerns
  • Spiritual or community connections, if meaningful to you

Why it may matters

Staying connected may:

  • Reduce isolation and loneliness
  • Provide perspective when you’re overwhelmed
  • Help you recognize when you’re struggling
  • Give you encouragement and accountability
  • Provide practical help during a crisis
  • Strengthen resilience and emotional regulation

What it looks like in practice

It doesn’t have to mean having long conversations every day. It may be as simple as:

  • Calling someone once a week
  • Having coffee with a friend
  • Sending a text: “I’m having a difficult day, can we talk?”
  • Attending a support group regularly
  • Letting trusted people know when you need extra support

A key principle: Don’t wait until you’re in crisis to connect. Maintaining relationships before you need them makes it easier to reach out when things become difficult.

Shervan K Shahhian

Don’t Lose Your Sense Of Self, means maintaining a clear connection to who you are:

Don’t lose your sense of self, means maintaining a clear connection to who you are, what you value, what you believe, and what you need, even when other people or circumstances put pressure on you to change.

What it may look like

  • Know your values: What matters to you? What principles guide your decisions?
  • Maintain boundaries: You can care about others without allowing them to control you.
  • Keep your individuality: Your identity doesn’t have to disappear inside a relationship, family, workplace, or social group.
  • Trust your own judgment: Listen to others, but don’t automatically surrender your perspective.
  • Stay connected to your interests: Continue doing things that give you meaning and enjoyment.
  • Allow yourself to change: A strong sense of self isn’t rigid. You can grow while remaining connected to your core identity.
  • Don’t define yourself solely by a role: You are more than your job, relationship, diagnosis, achievements, or mistakes.

A useful distinction may be:

Healthy adaptation: “I may change without abandoning myself.”Losing yourself: “I have to become someone else to be accepted, loved, or safe.”

In mental health, maintaining a sense of self is closely related to identity, autonomy, self-concept, boundaries, and psychological differentiation.

Shervan K Shahhian

Permissiveness means a tendency to be lenient, tolerant,…

Permissiveness means a tendency to be lenient, tolerant, or allowing, especially when rules, boundaries, or behavior could otherwise be restricted.

In mental health

Permissiveness may describe a style in which someone:

  • Sets few rules or limits
  • Avoids confrontation or discipline
  • Allows others considerable freedom
  • May have difficulty saying “no”
  • May tolerate behavior that crosses reasonable boundaries

Example:

A permissive parent might rarely enforce consequences when a child breaks household rules.

In relationships

Permissiveness may be healthy when it means acceptance and flexibility, but excessive permissiveness may become poor boundary setting or enabling.

Healthy: “I understand you’re upset, but I won’t accept being insulted.”

Overly permissive: “It’s okay, say whatever you want,” even when the behavior is repeatedly harmful.

Key distinction

Acceptance vs permissiveness.

You may accept someone’s feelings or perspective without permitting harmful, disrespectful, or unsafe behavior.

Shervan K Shahhian